There are some real facts in this life that bullies and cowards either never learn or learn too late. The facts of which I speak would be special kinds of beauty. We all have it unless we are completely deranged, cruel or just plain mean. One thing for sure, people who bully are lacking their own self esteem. At some point in life we have to tap into us. Individuals are individuals because we are all different. We are short, tall, white, black, and different shades of flesh, gay, straight, able, disabled,heavy, thin and all unique.
Each of us were born naked into this world. We have our own special DNA and talents for which to explore. We are each unique. There is only one of us. There is no duplicate you. Whereas one person can run like the wind, another has a beautiful speaking voice, or a smile, or the ability to explain things or have a multitude of talents and beauty that is within. The beauty is in the eye of the beholder and not all beauty is absolutely visible to the eye or ear but there just the same. What is fat, is thin to another. What is thin is fat to another. What is gorgeous is not so much to another. Only a complete moron would say their opinion out loud because it only counts to them. The old saying if you can’t say something nice …..don’t say anything applies when it comes to people’s feelings.
NEVER ever let someone’s opinion of you drag down your self esteem. One thing for sure, that if one is given the opportunity to live a long life, gravity will set in and the aging process will begin. Emotions are delicate. We should never deliberately hurt a person for just being who they are. We will and when we do, an honorable person would ask forgiveness and be sorry for their careless display of hurt.
No one will have the same look they had at a young age because it would not be natural and defies the laws of aging. One can lose weight, get plastic surgery, dye their hair, have face lifts, gain weight or have air brushed photos but not one of those things will turn the clock back and the years will keep doing what is natural...aging you. The beauty you possess is still in your mind, in your hands and in your heart and it is best to have beauty extended beyond the visible because outward beauty is a fading and a very temporary thing except to your loved ones and those you make a difference to in life. Beauty has to be held on to with humility in your own eyes knowing you are you and what you have done to make life a better place for you and those you encounter.
Each of us have a unique beauty that no words should ever infiltrate to downgrade. One never really knows happiness until they get comfortable in their own skin and accept themselves and share themselves in a positive manner with the world. NEVER EVER let a simple minded bully put you down, degrade you or make you lose your way. They are lacking something in their lives and steal your esteem to try and fill their own emptiness. You are You. You are special and you have your own beauty from the cradle to the grave. Don’t go around believing lies about someone’s opinion of you. It really does not matter what they think of you. It only matters that you allow them to influence what you think of you. Look in the mirror or touch your face and say, “ I am me and I am worth the beauty that I possess. No one has the right to make me feel bad about myself. No one.”